Glossophobia

The fear of public speaking, also known as Glossophobia, is one of the most common fears people experience. It can manifest as a range of symptoms, including anxiety, sweaty palms, trembling, and an increased heart rate. I swear, I personally experienced several of these symptoms. This fear can seriously limit one's personal and professional growth.

 

Fortunately, there are many effective ways to overcome the fear of public speaking. Here are some tips that can help:

  •  Acknowledging your own fear and recognizing that the fear of public speaking is very normal and that a lot of people experience it. Try to identify the source of your fear and acknowledge it. 
  • A musician in New York was asked, “how do you get to Carnegie hall?,  and he replied “Practice, Practice, Practice”.  Even if you are not looking to perform on a stage as imposing as Carnegie Hall, practice does take you a long way in life. One of the best ways to overcome fear is to be well-prepared. Rehearse your speech, practice in front of friends or family, and be familiar with your material.
  • Imagine yourself giving a successful speech and receiving positive feedback. Visualization techniques can help boost your confidence and reduce anxiety.
  • Deep breathing exercises can help calm your nerves and reduce anxiety. Take deep breaths before and during your speech. Practice pausing and gathering your thoughts instead of using filler words. 
  • Remember that you are there to share your ideas with the audience. Focus on connecting with them, and not on yourself. If you make a mistake or omit a point, only you know that omission. Avoid correcting or apologizing on the stage. 
  • Structure your speeches with a clear beginning, a quote or question to engage audience interest. A middle with details or bullet points, followed by strong closing.
  • Help is around the corner: Consider joining a public speaking group such as Toastmasters or seeking the help of a professional coach. They can provide you with guidance and support to help you overcome your fear.

With practice and persistence, anyone can overcome their fear of public speaking. Remember that Public Speaking is a skill that can be learned and mastered, and that the benefits of being an effective communicator are well worth the effort.

 

~Raj Kavalla

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  1. Elizabeth ThomasApril 24, 2023 at 5:27 AM

    Raj oh how I needed this many moons ago. Thank you so much.This is extremely helpful, This will be so helpful to so many. Thank you so much .This is Super helpful.

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